How to start out on your spiritual path
- davidmonticalvo
- Mar 16
- 1 min read

For many gay folks, spirituality can feel like a complicated path, especially when mainstream traditions have often excluded or misrepresented us. But the truth is, spirituality belongs to everyone—it’s our birthright. Here are some ways to cultivate a meaningful spiritual practice as a queer person:
Create a Personal Ritual
Spirituality doesn’t have to fit into rigid structures. Light a candle, meditate, dance, or journal—whatever connects you to the divine. Your practice should feel affirming and empowering.
Discover Your Spiritual Heritage
Many indigenous and pre-colonial cultures honored queer people as spiritual leaders, shamans, or two-spirit beings. Explore these histories and let them guide your journey.
Find Queer-Affirming Spaces
Whether it’s a progressive church, a queer meditation group, or an LGBTQ+ astrology circle, surrounding yourself with affirming energy makes all the difference.

Honor Your Body as Holy
In a world that tries to shame queer bodies, recognizing our physical selves as sacred is an act of defiance. Through breathwork, yoga, or simple self-love practices, embrace the divine within.
Engage with Queer Mystics & Thinkers
Read the works of James Baldwin, Audre Lorde, or queer spiritual leaders like Harry Hay. Their wisdom can inspire and deepen your own path.
Spirituality is not about fitting into someone else’s box; it’s about discovering the sacredness of your own existence. As queer folks, we have always been creators of new paths—why should our spiritual journey be any different?