About Me

I've always been drawn to spirituality, exploring diverse paths like Catholicism, Pentecostalism, and other forms of traditional patriarchal Christianity. While I caught glimpses of the divine along the way, I also felt disconnected from my truest self.

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In my mid-30s, an unexpected period of transition led me to fully embrace my gayness. This beautiful but deeply challenging time introduced me to New Thought teachings, which helped me recognize my journey as divine, perfect, and good.

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This message of innate goodness felt like something the world needed. That realization led me to start the Gay Men’s Spirituality Group in San Francisco in 2021, a monthly group of gay men of all ages who connect in an authentic and joyful way. Inspired by a desire to build deeper connections across our beautiful LGBTQ+ community, I launched Queerly Sacred in 2026. 

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I live in Oakland with my husband and senior dogs. I love reading, rock climbing, and singing.

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Let’s connect! You can reach me on social media @davidmonticalvo.